3 Years: Natural Hair & Motherhood

Hello, everyone! Today marks 3 years since I did the big chop.

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This is a picture of me right after I did my big chop. I was four months pregnant and very excited about the new life that was to come. I can honestly say that I have grown so much over these past few years, and so has my hair.

3 years later

I chose to do the big chop for myself. It was all about me becoming comfortable in my own skin. Doing what I felt was right regardless of everyone else’s opinion of me. This really has come in handy with motherhood.

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I have found that people have all kinds of opinions when it comes to how I ought to raise my daughter. I have heard a lot of “you better do this” and “you better stop that”. The funny thing is that some bits of advice contradict other bits of advice that I have received. The same thing goes with my hair. You’d think that it’s just hair but some people take this whole “natural hair community” thing very serious. I have heard “if you are going to be natural you have to follow the rules”. I personally don’t feel it’s that deep. I am just living for me not trying to live for “the community”.

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This natural hair journey has helped me be a better mother. It has helped me to find a new voice that I did not know I had inside. I have discovered a new side of myself and it is beautiful. Let me introduce you to this woman that I have found:

Loving it

Nowadays, I go by the name Dri. I am a wife, a mother, and I am discovering more about myself each day. I now look into the mirror and a see a beautiful woman because I am no longer lost trying to live up to the expectations of others. I realized that I cannot live up to them and I am okay with that. I have discovered a strength within myself that showed up the day my daughter came into the world and has continued to grow.

guest appearanceI want to encourage you today to live the life that God has destined you to live. Sure, there will be those who disagree and feel you are going about it the wrong way but only you know what God is leading you to do.  It doesn’t matter whether it has to do with your hair, how you are going to raise your children, where you will go to college…etc. Don’t allow man’s opinion to keep you back from living this gift called life.

Thanks for stopping by once again and for your support. I truly appreciate you visiting and sharing my post.  I don’t know what’s next to come but you can be certain that any changes will be done for me.

Stay blessed,

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4 thoughts on “3 Years: Natural Hair & Motherhood

  1. I love this Dri! I had a similar experience the first time I went natural. I say the first time because I’ve gone back and forth about 4 times! Lol and that’s a big no no for “the community”. But I found that I discovered new things about myself and God each big chop and I’m a better woman and mom to my girls for it. Way to go girl!!! Btw your little cutie is breathtaking!

    1. I’m so with you on that. I am not against relaxing my hair. I can’t even say that you won’t find my hair relaxed in the future. All I know is that I want my daughter to see that her mom followed God and not what the world thought she should. I am also happy that you can relate. Be blessed and thank you so much for your response.

    1. Maemi, thank you so much. I appreciate the encouragement and support. That is one of my favorite pictures of us, but then again I love them all! Don’t be a stranger. Thanks for taking out time to show some love to my blog.

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